A Recipe for Fractured Fellowship

In today’s world, “One call, that’s all” isn’t just a catchy slogan—it’s a reflection of a culture where victimhood and litigation are seen as the principal ingredients for achievement. Yet, this recipe for fractured fellowship is not a recent import into the church; it’s been simmering in the Lord’s church since the first century. That’s precisely why the apostle Paul had to address it head-on in 1 Corinthians 6:1-11. Even now, some Christians still struggle to set aside this ancient, worldly cookbook and learn the finer art of Christlike grace and reconciliation. As we examine the steps of this time-tested recipe, let’s consider how its familiar flavors may still shape our approach to conflict and unity.

1. First, you need one big scoop of fault-finding. This is the main ingredient that the world loves. Whereas “love covers a multitude of sins” (1 Peter 4:8), fault-finding ensures that even mishaps and unintentional wrongdoing does not go unpunished.
2. Next, stir in a heavy dose of entitlement to provide that addictive, worldly sweetness. This ingredient convinces us that our personal rights are the most important items on the menu, demanding that someone "pay up" regardless of the cost to the unity of Christ’s body.
3. Finally, sprinkle in some legal action, if you really want to take your recipe to the next level!

Of course, if you love Jesus and His church, this recipe will be disastrous. His gospel of reconciliation teaches us to love and forgive our enemies and debtors (Matthew 5:44; 6:12). It doesn’t pay well in this life, but you’ll enjoy the everlasting taste of salvation.