Romans 12:15 says we need to learn to weep with those who weep, it doesn’t say we need to learn to correct those who weep, cheer up those who weep, or abandon those who weep. It says we need to weep with them.
The Skit Guys provide a great thought on this in their video called “The Mourning Booth.”
We could learn a lot from the waitress in this video.